There is something great communicators have that us common folks can learn.
It is simply to draw people in with deep conversations.
It is a stark difference from what we think is a conversation: For example
Sheldon: Oh hey
Sheldon: How’s school going?
You: (In your head contemplating how to execute your existence)
That is a mundane conversation and is so boring.
Who will even remember you for something like that.
And to think most conversations are just like that.
Which is very good because when you do bring deep conversation to the table you will dare I say
become the most interesting man (or woman) in the world.
Here is a list of ways to summon a deep conversation from within:
1. Make sure it is a topic that really has no definite answer. Like speaking about the cosmos.
2. Offer something enlightining but say it in a way that does not make you seem like a know it all. For instance offer a bit of history up for verbal dissection with your hungry friends.
3. Stray away from hot button issues, work related stuff, school related stuff or anything that you know you would fall asleep listening to yourself.
When you take the time to delve into a new world with someone an interesting thing happens.
THEY REMEMBER WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE AND WILL ACTIVELY SEEK YOU IN THE FUTURE.
Lesson: Stop talking about stupid shit and really get to another level.